How Come?

how come? its a never really a good thing when someone asks 'how come?' but its true, how come? How come people you care and love about make a really dumb choice. from my point of view. but from his its what his heart and head are saying. is it bad that i hope it goes the opposite way that he desires it to go. its just way to hard to watch him go through something like he has before. how come he has to do it? so he can learn something? i want him to be so happy and i want the best for him. i really do. despite of how things come across. i care. i really do care. i love you man and you are in my prayers. take care.